What's a Pastor to Do?
Pastors realize early on that it's impossible to meet all the expectations. You could not do everything that everyone expected if you used all 168 hours each week! Besides, expectations can be mutually exclusive. One may expect you to always be in the office, in case someone drops by who needs you. Another may expect you to be out of the office to visit prospects, members,hospitals and nursing homes. What's a pastor to do?
Concentrate on the Lord's expectations, and you will meet enough of the others in the process. What does the Lord expect a pastor to do? Amazingly, the word "pastor" occurs only once in the New Testament. So if we do what it says there, we will be on target in meeting the Chief Shepherd's expectations for his under shepherds. Ephesians 4:11-12 says God gave pastors to the church "to equip the saints for the work of the ministry." It is not our job to try to do all the work of ministry. Much more ministry is needed than one man can do, even with a staff to help him. All Christians are ministers, so our job as pastors is to help them do their job. Instead of trying to be the star player, we are to be player coaches.
The "pastors" of the first church understood this (Acts 6:1-4). As the numbers and needs grew, they handed off the work of the ministry, so they could do the priorities of pastoring. "We will give ourselves to prayer and to the ministry of the word." It worked! The laity did the ministry, needs were met, complaining turned to contentment,the word of God spread, and the number of disciples multiplied greatly.
It worked then, and it works now. 50,000 churches in the U.S. were examined by the Rainer Group. Only a few were Breakout Churches (Thom S. Rainer, 2005, Zondervan). "These leaders, like the Twelve in Acts 6, seek to equip others for the work of the ministry...All of the breakout church leaders in our findings achieved the Acts 6/7 level" (p.28).